तुझसे मोहब्बत हुए सालों हो गया

 

* तुझसे मोहब्बत हुए सालों हो गया

लेकिन तेरा दिल है जो पिघलता ही नहीं

तुमसे मिले हुए सालो हो गया

पर तेरा ख्याल है जो दिल से निकलता ही नहीं

ऐसे तो बहूत अजनबी आये तुझसे मिलने के बाद

लेकिन क्या करे तेरे सिवा ये दिल किसी को समझता ही नहीं

बहुत शिकायतें है मुझको तुझसे

लेकिन‌ ये मेरा दिल अब तुमसे कुछ कहता है नहीं

सोचता हु देखु इक बार आ के तेरा चेहरा 

तुझे समाने बैठा के

सोचता हूं मिलूं तुझसे कभी फुर्सत निकाल के

लेकिन तेरा ओ ना कहने का डर 

दिल से निकलता  ही नहीं

तुझसे मोहब्बत हुए सालों हो गया तेरा दिल है

 जो पिघलता ही , नहीं है

             दिल याद करता है बार बार

              तुम मिल लो तो इक बार..🤟👉M🙎 Vinod kushwaha

Kahta Hai Dil Mera Tere Chale Jane ke Bad

 

Ye Sahar ab suna suna sa lgta hai tere chale Jane ke bad.

Ab to mai khoya khoya rhta hu tere chale Jane bad

Ye dil puchhta hai o saksh kha gya tere chale Jane bad

Dil ghabrata hai nind nhi aati hai tere chale Jane ke bad

Kya kahu dil ye tumhe yad bahut karta hai

Tere chale bad

Charo taraf chhayi hai udasiyan tere chale Jane ke bad

Laut aao na kuchh din ke liye khta hai ye dil mera tere jane ke bad 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हू…

हर दिन अपने लिए एक जाल बुनता हूँ, 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ| 

हर रोज़ इम्तिहान लेती है जिंदिगी, 

हर रोज़ मगर मैं मोहब्बत चुनता हूँ| 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हू…

 बहुत दूर चला आया हूँ कारवाँ से, तन्हा रास्तों में एक हमसफ़र ढूंढता हूँ| 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ…

 अंधेरों में तुम्हारा चेहरा साफ़ दिखता है, 

तुम सामने होते हो जब आँख मूंदता हूँ| 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ…

 सिर्फ एहसास ए मोहब्बत बन जाता हूँ, 

जब तेरी जबीं को मैं चूमता हूँ| 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ…

 तेरे होते हुए सुखन मुमकिन नहीं, तेरे जाते ही अपनी कलम ढूंढता हूँ| 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ…

 सब हैरान हैं देख कर रक्स ए इश्क, मैं तेरी वफ़ा में ऐसा झूमता हूँ|

 कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ…

 दिल में आशियाने की आरजू लिए, मैं शहरों शहरों घूमता हूँ| 

कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ…

लोग सुनाते हैं और मैं सुनता हु, बस कभी ज़हन, कभी दिल, कभी रूह की सुनता हूँ…

न ठहरते हैं साथ और चलते भी नहीं

मन नही करता है

 मन नही करता

कभी नींद आती थी..
आज सोने को “मन” नही करता, है
कभी छोटी सी बात पर आंसू बह जाते थे..
अब तो रोने तक का “मन” नही करता, है
जी करता है लूटा दूं खुद को या लुटजाऊ खुद पे
 अब तो जीने का “मन” नही करता, है
पहले शब्द कम पड़ जाते थे बोलने को किसी से
लेकिन आज मुह खोलने को “मन” नही करता, है

कभी दुसरे के दर्द को बंटते थे 

अब तो खुद का दर्द ही महसूस नहीं होता है
कभी मीठी यादें कड़वी बातें  ख्वाब हकीकत सब याद आते थे
अब तो  सोचने को  भी“मन” नही करता, है
मैं कैसा था? और कैसा हो गया हूं

अब तो जीने का भी मन नहीं करता है

कभी इक बार भागते थे तो मिलो दुर नाप आते थे

अब तो चलने से भी डर लगता है

कभी सोचते थे भागने है बड़ी दुर तक

लेकिन आब तो यह भी सोचने को “मन” नही करता। है

आज कल दिल बहुत डरता है क्या कहू  

अब कुछ मन नहीं करता है"अब मन नहीं करता है

THE HOSPITAL WINDOW

THE HOSPITAL WINDOW August 12, 2020 

There were two men, both seriously ill, who shared the same hospital room. One man got a seat next to the room’s only window. The man was also allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help him drain fluids from his lungs. The other man had to spend all his time lying flat on his back. The two roommates quickly bonded and started talking for hours on end. They talked about their lives, their job, children and wives. One day the man on the other side of the window, expressed how he envied the man near the window. From that day the man near the window started describing all the things he could see outside the window. Motivational Story The window overlooked a lovely park with a lake. Ducks played on the lake while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. The man on the other bed began to live for those one hour where he could hear and visualize the world outside the hospital room. The one hour of every day would broaden broadened his world and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. One fine afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band, he could visualize it as the man by the window vividly described. Days and weeks passed by. One morning, a nurse arrived to examine the condition of the two patients. She found the lifeless body of the man by the window. The man had peacefully embraced his death on his sleep. The nurse sadly called the hospital attendants to take the body away. The other man grieved the death of his roommate. But, as the day passed by he started missing the way his roommate described the view out of the window. In a hope to have a peek out of the window and the beautiful world outside, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse happily made the switch. As soon as he was comfortable in his new bed, the man slowly and painfully propped himself to take his first look at the world outside. The nurse delightfully watched as the man attempted to sit on the bed after weeks. But as he strained to slowly turn to look out of the window beside him. He was stunned to see a blank wall outside the window. The agitate man asked the nurse what could have made his roommate to lie about the view outside the window. “There is nothing to see from here. Where are all the wonderful things he saw? He described everything so vividly. Is this a new and recent wall? Why did he give me such vivid details that don’t exist?” He asked The nurse shook her head and answered his questions, “Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you and make you happy. You see, your roommate was totally blind”.

How does westernization have an impact on India and it's culture?

How does westernization have an impact on India and it's culture?

 

Introduction to westernization.
Westernization is a process in which societies adopt western cultures in areas such as industry, technology, law, politics, economies and lifestyles, clothing, language etc. Today, there are many people who are westernizing themselves among many cultures. Westernization has become common in the world especially in India. People normally get a plastic surgery to look western is because it gives the back a round and a perkier shape, it also straightens hair. People want to change themselves like this because they are not satisfied of the way they are. They also think that being western is superior, and because they have a dominant history. Westernization does not only include plastic surgery, but people also change their lifestyles to become like a western person.

The Indian culture
The Indian culture is one of the oldest and richest cultures, it has a long shaped history and an ancient heritage. There are many festivals and celebrations which happen in India every year. This country has a population of more than 1 billion and is a culture in which there are more than 700 languages spoken. This culture however, is now being impacted by westernization and everything is slowly changing and is becoming western. 

Westernization impact on the Indian culture.
Westernization is a kind of globalization which is spreading throughout Asian countries especially in India. The Indian culture is ones of the oldest and the richest cultures however, now that the western culture is kicking in, e.g. goods, festivals, dressings, foods etc.,  it is impacting on the Indian culture in many ways. The western culture is that it is replacing itself with the Indian culture. 



Negative impacts of westernization on the Indian culture.


Dressings.
Westernization is ruining the traditional clothing of the Indian culture. For example, in India, the traditional dressing is sari, dhoti and kurta however, today there are lots of people wearing more of a western clothing like jeans, tee-shirts and girls are wearing short skirts tops etc. In India, there is approximately 25% of western clothing. The change of fashion in India is now leading to reduction of the importance of the Indian culture to many people.

Festivals.
The western culture is impacting on the Indian festivals in may ways too. All Indians greatly celebrate their festivals every year and enjoy them very much. Today, large numbers of people in India are not celebrating their own festivals like Holi or Diwali, but instead, they are celebrating more of western cultures like Christmas or Halloween. Also, in the Indian religion, no boy or girl are allowed to date each other however, today in India, many youngsters are breaking these laws and are celebrating valentines day and are not alert of their religion and this is reducing the value of the Indian religion for them.

Foods 
The Indian plate has welcomed many western foods (e.g pizza, burgers, steak tacos etc.), and Indian foods like Golgapa, curry etc., are being less popular in India, however are becoming common in Europe while the western foods are growing stronger and are becoming more popular in India. Western foods contain too much fat and this causing the obesity rate in India to increase. In the Indian religion, you are not allowed to eat pork or meat however, since the western foods have kicked in, many Indians are no longer respecting their religion and are eating things against their religion. This is causing the value of the Indian religion to decrease and is changing many people's lifestyles. Today in India, there are more western restaurants like KFC, or Mac Donald's compared to the Indian restaurants there are. 

Language
In India, there are more than 700 languages spoken. However, many of these mother tongue languages are beginning to fade away. As usual, to get a good job, you must know the basic language (English) or other additional ones. So many many people today are focusing on these languages and are forgetting about their mother tongue thus, this is making their religion less important. 

Lifestyles and People
Westernization has changed many peoples lifestyles. Now, there is no particular lifestyle that is Indian. Most things have changed like respect to the young ones and elders, importance of a family, marriage making, clothing, festivals, foods, names, languages and even getting a plastic surgery to look more western. People are changing themselves and are trying to adapt like western people. Westernization is also reducing the equality of lifestyles in India. In the Indian culture, in order to visit a temple, you must have the right clothing although, it is shocking to see that today, there are many teenagers who are dressing as modern people e.g stylish haircuts, jeans, tee-shirts etc., when entering a temple. In the Indian culture, people had respect for the young and elders however, since the western culture has arrived, the respect had gone and now the behaviors of many people have changed.

Music 
The Indian music has changed greatly due to in taking of the western culture. Indians have their own traditional music and instruments like flute, drums, etc., however, today they are using different instruments like guitars to make their music and now, Indian songs sound completely different and are nothing like what they sounded before. 


Positive Impacts of westernization on the Indian culture.


Modernization
The western culture has impacted on India in many negative ways however, it has also influenced India in many ways too. For example, it is making India more modern. The Indian culture is a very old culture and is staying the same however, now the western culture is changing it to become more modern. Today, the western media is now making many people in India especially teenagers dressing more modernly like jeans, tee shirts etc. Modernization has also enabled to increase the economic growth of India. 

 Public Health
Due to westernization influence, sanitation and public health has improved greatly in India. Many western doctors have immigrated into India and have made medicines which have helped reduce sicknesses, diseases in large parts because health care has become accessible. 

 Labor
The presence of western traders in India have increased the demands for goods and services in India. As a result of that, Indian artisans, craftsmen and weavers have employed. These artisans and craftsmen have grown in numbers and now the Indian labor force and become more skilled and handy. 
 Education
Westernization has also benefited areas of education in India. When the British occupied India, they build many schools throughout the country and this made the literacy increase and the poorest class of society had access to knowledge.

 Films and movies
Westernization has brought media as well in India. For example, in America, India now has a famous movie making media called ‘Bollywood’ which came from Hollywood in America. Bollywood’s films now traditionally feature India, its culture, tradition and religion. Bollywood is now quiet popular in India and many people know about it. So media in India has also improved due to the western culture.

So is westernization a good thing or a bad thing?
Westernization has brought many negative impacts on India however, it has also brought many benefits as well although, there are more advantages of westernization compared to the disadvantages. Still, India should take care of this globalization because in the future, it will change India and destroy it's religion, culture and tradition.